So I have been friends with a girl for argument sake we will call her 'Emma'. Emma and I have been friends for over 10 years. When I got married 6 years ago she started acting funny a couple months eventually we cut contact with each other. During this time, I went on to have my first child. 3 years later my husband was looking for a new job and received a phone call from 'Emma' who worked for this company inviting him in for an interview. When he got there they both realised who each other were and then through my husband, Emma and I rekindled our friendship. Everything was great, we had sleepovers, went out for lunch regularly bought each other gifts and our kids became friends (my child was two at this point and her child was 5). It came to her birthday and I treated her to a wonderful spa day out which cost a pretty penny and she had a lovely time.
Christmas came and she wanted to meet up around that time but as you know Christmas is a very busy time and it was hard for us to meet up so we didn't end up meeting up around that time. My sons birthday was on the 28th Dec and she didn't bother to say happy birthday at all whatsoever which was quite hurtful but I didn't make up a fuss about it. Our communication slowly started to dwindle and I assumed it was due to not meeting up over Christmas.
My birthday then came in March and she didn't even wish me a happy birthday and then shortly after that I noticed she had blocked my number. She had stopped talking to me for absolutely no reason at all. This was very hurtful and confusing for myself and my husband because we considered her family and for her to just cut us off like that was just truly unbelievable.
Nonetheless we continued with our lives and then 2.5 years later popped back up on whats app (obviously unblocked me) and messaged me a sweet message (not addressing why we haven't spoken for almost 3 years but hey ho) at the time I welcomed her with open arms as I do genuinely love her as a friend and want us to be kool but I just feel like shes insincere for not addressing whatever her problems are. Shes talking about all the achievements shes done e.g got a new partner (She was single before) etc etc and I feel like shes only added me back as she wants me to know that she doing well. I told her that if she has any issues with me in the future that she should speak to me about them and she responded by mentioning that she dosen't know why we stopped speaking and this has further annoyed me. I am going through some personal issues at the moment as I have a daughter who is currently fighting for her life and I really am not feeling very friendly or patient with anyone at the moment esp people that are not sincere. What would you guys do or how would you handle this situation?
"Sleep overs lol" so cute. She sounds like shes jealous and jealousy is one of those dangerous things. Because you cant prove it? Like when you asked her to say what her problem is, would she say "oh i am jealous of you" i dont think anyone does that, if they did then they are honest and thus you could be friends. But your friend not talking to you for 3 years and acting like nothing happens only means whatever happened before, will only happen again. And because you dont know what it is, theres two things you can do in my opinion. A. Have a serious conversation with her and tell her your concerns, see how she behaves and if she still acts like its nothing cut her off. B. Cut her off. You dont need snakes around your family especially if your daughter is fighting for her life. All the best to you. Just my opinion😁🤪
Sounds sad. I agree that you should confront her first. Not talking allows too much room for travelling. Also, i notice this alot with girls lol guess it dont change when your older. Hope you guys make up
I hope you guys sort it. 🤓
She sounds shitty cut her off.
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