I been in the dating game for a minute now, alot of guys give me attention. But not the right attention, they be like "hey you fine" "can it take you out" trying to impress me with their jobs and their cars, but doesnt really get to anything serious? Am i old fashioned? Am I expectations too high? I dont get it.

Yeah I am kinda in the same boat, so I had to stop dating, I havent dated for the last 6 months girl. Ofcourse if Mr Right comes along I will run to him. I been cheated on in my last relationship so its left a big hole in my heart. I feel like alot of dudes just aint serious anymore and I am a point that if your going to waste my time, i just disappear you know?
Hi ladies, soooooo, what kind of guys do you like? Because the problem may be the type youre going for?
I like guys who have their shit together? Cant be living with your mom, have a good job, be understanding and love good conversation. Is that too much to ask?
@honeyhoneyhoney Ok what do you consider is a good job?
@Sandrinho.Josè.L.F bruh, he can be a janitor, as long as his got job security is what i mean he aint gunna lose his job and is financially stable thats important.
Hmmm, sounds great, I am sure you will get what you want soon, I know theres brothers looking for that too. Trust me.
thanks bro, imma keep praying lol
@honeyhoneyhoney me too lol
@Muh-Lisa guess ill join you guys
Yeah part of the reason why I live in Japan now and left the good ol US of A was because of a cheating partner. We were together for 9 years since Junior High, I was happy and I thought he was too, but then he cheated. He said sorry but I just couldnt depart from that pain. We got back together but I couldnt get over it, i felt like shit, so my parents intervened and said I should focus on my career and have a change of scenery. I did after alot of support and now I am in Japan, single for the time being. I am lucky for my parents I owe it all to them. Pity i wont be able to see them this Thanksgiving though due to work but it should be ok for Christmas if everthing goes how i planned it. If its anything like my lovelife, then no lol
Hey @JennaKawaii yeah similar thing happen to me too. Its a doozy to live with huh?
So thats why you moved to Japan? I was wondering because I checked your profile the other day. Thats a big move and i was thinking about going there myself, what is it like? Have you tried dating Japanese guys? what are they like? Because I hear the japanese tend to be shy and reserved especially towards foreigners.
@cherryberryebony Hey, thanks for checking lol. I live just on the outskirts of Tokyo at a place called Shinjuku, there are alot of foreigners here so they are not too shy around here, other places I have been to, like Fukuoka its abit different and they arent used to it as much? But if you try and speak to them in Japanese they usually warm to you quite quickly. About my ex, yes its still a bummer to live with now, I hate him for for what he did, even if I have forgiven him. Its weird.
I have been dating here in Japan, they are abit more shy LMAO. Completely different to the guys back home but they are gentleman, they dont fuss about paying for the dates and making sure you get home safe. Its really nice actually lol, they know how to make a gal feel good about herself. Come see for yourself.
@JennaKawaii Yeah i get you sis. Believe me. Lucky for you, you got away, far far away. lol
I have never not dated a brother in my life so it would be a change. I been thinking about going Japan myself but I have also though about going to Ghana, so I am stuck in between the two. I have no idea where the places you mentioned are but ill be sure to research it.
Lol it sounds like they know how to treat a lady back here girl, were still fighting for whose gunna pay for dinner lol but i am always ready to go dutch anyway.
Ill be sure to go and check most certainly.
@Hayley Alys
@Hayley Alys LMAO, keep ya head up youll do fine. Gotta keep fightin
@cherryberryebony "Take me baby take me" uknow omg im dead😂😂😂😂😭💀💀💀
lol
@cherryberryebony LMFAO
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